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Minor League Baseball Player Whose Brother-In-Law Allegedly Murdered His Family: ‘My Heart Was Turned To Ash’

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Minor league baseball player Blake Bivens spoke publicly Thursday for the first time since the Tuesday murder of his wife, child and mother-in-law, saying his “heart was turned to ash.”

Police said Wednesday that Bivens’s 18-year-old brother-in-law Matthew Thomas Bernard was being charged for allegedly murdering his three relatives at their southern Virginia home, according to The Washington Post. Pittsylvania County Sheriff Mike Taylor said Bernard will be charged with three counts of first-degree murder. Bivens plays for the Montgomery Biscuits, a Tampa Bay Rays affiliate.

“Two days ago my heart was turned to ash,” Bivens wrote in an Instagram post Thursday. “My life as I knew it is destroyed. The pain my family and I feel is unbearable and cannot be put into words. I shake and tremble at the thought of our future without them. “

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Two days ago my heart was turned to ash. My life as I knew it is destroyed. The pain my family and I feel is unbearable and cannot be put into words. I shake and tremble at the thought of our future without them. Emily, my sweetheart, you are the best wife and mother this world has ever seen. You made me into the man I am today and you loved me with all of my flaws. You brought our precious baby boy into this world and made our family complete. Your love and kindness changed countless lives, including mine. My sweet little boy, dada loves you so much! I can’t breathe without you here. I finally understood what love was when you were born and I would have done anything for you. You have changed my life forever, you are my reason why. I long to hold the both of you again in heaven. I’m so glad you are with all your Great-grandmothers now, I know they are eating you up. This earth did not deserve either of you; you were just too wonderful to comprehend. Joan you were the best mother-in-law anyone could ask for. You loved your family more than anyone I’ve ever seen. You raised the most wonderful girl in the world. I’m so glad y’all are still together. You were the best Nana this world has ever seen and I will never forget you. Skip you are a wonderful father and grandfather. We will get through this together as a family. We will not let the devil win! Thank you God for giving me the most wonderful family in the world! I’ve been blessed beyond belief. Thank you to all my family and friends who have reached out to me during this time of sorrow. Thank you @raysbaseball @biscuitbaseball for your support through everything. I am comforted by all the messages and well wishes. I’m not sure what is next for me, but I do know God has a plan even though I can’t see it.

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“Emily, my sweetheart, you are the best wife and mother this world has ever seen. You made me into the man I am today and you loved me with all of my flaws,” he continued. “My sweet little boy, dada loves you so much! I can’t breathe without you here. I finally understood what love was when you were born and I would have done anything for you. You have changed my life forever, you are my reason why. I long to hold the both of you again in heaven.”

The incident allegedly began when Bernard punched a neighbor and ran away, according to court documents The Associated Press obtained. The neighbor heard gunshots at the house next door, drove to the house and discovered the body of Joan Bernard on the driveway. He then found the bodies of Emily and Cullen Bivens inside the house.

Authorities found a rifle and a bloody sledgehammer in the woods. About four hours later, after television crews had set up cameras and about 100 police officers had assembled to search for Bernard, he ran naked out of the woods. (RELATED: ISIS Bride Spills Info In Murder Case Of 5-Year-Old Girl To Undercover Security Services Driver, Prosecutors Say)

Video footage shows him allegedly attempting to choke a groundskeeper before being apprehended, and police said he banged his head against the cage in the police car.

Authorities took Bernard to the hospital, then to jail and placed him on suicide watch, according to the AP, citing police.

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